Good Evening Toastmasters and Guests. Today I am going to
share a very special moment in my life that is the Day of my birth.
DOB –
Date of Birth
For
everyone DOB stands for Date of Birth. For me it was dead on Birth.
Yes. I was nicely sleeping in my mother’s comfortable womb, when I was forcibly
pulled out with the doctor’s cold and surgical stainless steel forceps.
I arrived
into this world, not crying, not laughing too. But perfectly quiet
and sleeping.
Doctors in their medical language like to call this phenomenon
during deliveries as “STILL BIRTH” and not Baby dead at Birth.
After a
lot of efforts, all of the doctors gave up to wake me up and
revive me. Even on their medical charts, I was already declared as still birth
or dead.
But my mother already having 4 grown up children did not give
up on me.
My Mother
went in a wild fit of rage. She beat couple of doctors, black &
blue. She even stabbed a doctor with some injection that she got her hands
onto.
My
Mother’s rage was very violent and uncontrollable. The doctors wanted her to make her
unconscious and calm, but no one dared to go close to her. An FIR was lodged on 100 and the police were
summoned too.
My Mother
begged and pleaded and prayed to the Cops. On the request by the
police the doctors agreed to give a final try. The doctors hung me upside down
and slapped my back, till it was black and brown.
Still no
crying. My mother got a desperate idea. She demanded for a full Size
Ice Block and the doctors made me sleep on either side.
Even one
of the cops on the scene, broke protocol and stepped in to give me a
good beating on my back. In Marathi language he said, “Melela aahe toh. Marun ani kai Marnar”. Meaning, “Its dead already, a
little more beating won’t hurt or kill him anymore.” Finally after a good
police beating, I finally cried. I was crying and everyone around me I am told
was shouting and screaming with joy. It was nothing less than a miracle for my
mother that day. Hence my middle name is JESUS. For I was born dead and yet today I am alive.
CONCLUSION
To
conclude I would love to connect this incident to all of our lives. Never give
up easily. Never give up because others have given up. Just like my
mother never gave up on me. Just like that Cop who never gave up on me. All of
us have to be in our personal and professional lives like my mother or that
Mumbai Cop. We have both of them hidden somewhere in our lives. That mother or
that cop who will continue slapping us if we are dead. But the fire within you
should be awesome to get up, be awesome and raise and shine ahead. No matter
what.
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